Sharing Your Feelings With Your Dom
Sharing Your Feelings With your Dom is also a significant sign of achieving personal growth is being able to communicate your feelings to...
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The Language of BDSM
A Growing Library of what BDSM is and isn't
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Attachment Theory in Adult Relationship Styles
Attachment Theory in Adult Relationships Styles Have you ever jumped from relationship to relationship every few months, wondering why...
When Should a Sub Walk Away?
When should a sub walk away? It may seem simple, but a fake Dom isn't the real deal. It would be best never to let someone control you or...
Benefits of Submission - BDSM
Benefits of Submission - BDSM A lot has already been written about submission on blogs, memes, quotes, and images abound of “sub’s” and...
Beginners Guide to Understanding DDlg
There is a lot of controversy and misconception surrounding this particular type of D/s relationship, and to be honest, I, myself, was...
5 Causes of Insecurities in a BDSM Relationship Not to Overlook
The hard truth is every one of us feels insecure in our lives and our relationships from time to time. Insecurity can reveal itself in...
The Well-Balanced Dom & Sub Power Exchange Relationship - BDSM
The Well-Balanced Dom & Sub Power Exchange Relationship - BDSM The Dom The Protector The Disciplinarian The Guide The Nurturer The Safe...
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Be Present In Your Relationships We all have busy lives with lots going on at any given time, and it’s easy to get caught up in...
BDSM - Best Nipple Clamps Beginners, Experts & Intermediates
Nipple clamps are sex toys that are attached to a man or woman's nipples. The goal of the clamps is to pinch the wearer's nipple giving...
10 Things A Good Dom Needs From His Sub
Submission is not following your Dom. It is leading him, clearing the path, and reporting back to him on any snares or problems you see...
How and Why You Need To Go Down On Your Sub
How and Why You Need To Go Down On Your Sub An anonymous follower recently asked me for tips on performing oral on his sub. I assume the...
A Beginners Guide to Rope Bondage - BDSM
A Beginners Guide to Rope Bondage - BDSM For beginners looking to start their bondage journey, rope from a hardware store is just fine....
How Do I Find a Good Dom?
How Do I Find a Good Dom? So you have finally realized that your are a sub or at least that you're interested enough that you want to...
How To Know When You've Found "The One."
How To Know When You've Found "The One." Knowing how to know when you've found the one is significant. You will have a lot of time to...
How to Stop Arguments Before They Start
How to stop arguments before they start. Arguing with someone can become a regular routine, and it can actually start to take over your...
Qualities of a Good Dominant
Qualities of a Good Dominant I have spent some time discussing with others that explore the lifestyle of BDSM and asked them what they...
6 Crucial Questions Every Submissive Must Ask Her Potential Dom
6 Crucial Questions Every Submissive Must Ask Her Potential Dom For all submissive females, finding a suitable dominant companion should...
How tell if he's a Fake Dom vs Real Dom: 16 Red Flags You Need to Know
How tell if he's a Fake Dom vs Real Dom: Are you tired of dealing with fake Dom's? Look no further; I put a together 16 of the most...
BDSM: The Absolute Beginner's Guide
BDSM: The Absolute Beginner's Guide As you read through this guide and all of my other BDSM-related guides, I'm going to be very...
BDSM Abbreviations
ATM: Ass to Mouth ABDL: Adult Baby/Diaper Lover BYOT: Bring Your Own Toys CD: Cross Dresser CBT: Cock and Ball Torture CG/l: Care Giver /...
BDSM for Beginners -Terms You Need To Know
When you are in a relationship or think about exploring a relationship involving BDSM, you have to learn the correct definitions for all...
A Quick Guide For Newbie Sub Girls
A Quick Guide For Newbie Sub Girls Possibly you had known you were kinky since childhood. Perhaps you acted outs as a rebel against...
BDSM: So You Want to be a Mind-blowing Dom?
You can't stop thinking about it, you've fantasized about it, and you've decided that it's for you—that's all fine and dandy. Now it's...
BDSM Vetting Process - Everything You Genuinely Need to Know
Vetting a new partner has somehow lost its essential value in our current society, not just the BDSM community. New dating apps and...
Is BDSM normal?
Is BDSM normal? I was asked by a follower “if BDSM was Normal or not.” Well, that depends on what your definition of ‘Normal’ is. Normal...
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Making long-distance relationships work is one of the most common questions asked by people with bicoastal romantic relations. The...
BDSM Aftercare 101
Why BDSM aftercare is important Before you enter any BDSM sexual encounter, you must know what after is. BDSM aftercare is an essential...
What are the Signs of a Fake 'Dom'
What are the Signs of a Fake Dom? The truth is that many individuals who are involved in alternative lifestyle are prone to become...
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